Articles in Self Development
The Charm of Small Things
Does small things really have any impact on us? I wonder in amazement sometimes and am nearly torn by the confusion raging inside my head. Many people show you short cut path to success but at the end of the tunnel, you end up doing even more work. Getting more things done at less time sounds like a tacky stuff. But some things do work with this philosophy, many of us are wanting to make some type of impact in this world may be something for better. Different people might have different issues and concerns to fulfill for making this world a better place to live in. There are of course some people who will resist the change and given the vastness of this world there are very meager chances that world is going to change with the efforts done by just one individual.
Thinking of a world which has such a vast place to live in gives you an idea of the ocean and how much deeper it can get. Today we are going to learn something really special that will show us the Art of the Small things. If [...]
Energize yourself
There are stages in life, where you feel really feel tired looking at your life. Perhaps, a little change can bring lots of energy and activeness in your far laid back life. If you are looking to do something like this, here are some grounds rules that will help you get energized and move on:
Some ideas might sound like a little funny, but they really help, try it and let me know:
Refresh yourself with a change in socks during your rest time, you will be amazed to find how refreshed and energized you feel.
It does not matter where you are (except for the office premise), a loud singing of your favorite tunes is surely going to rave you up.
Clean up your nose on a regular basis.
Work the way your body clock works.
Eat some good desert at the end of a tiring day.
Have a powerful snack at lunch consisting of mixed nuts, flavored yogurt, fruits, smoothie or a granola bar.
Wear the clothes which have soothing colors that will help you stay calm and at peace.
A power nap [...]
Forgiveness is the key to Happiness – Part II
Sometimes life gives you much of happiness and much of displeasure as well, it maintains the equilibrium. As we learn to live life, with the facts of life we would be more open to accept them and find the happiness wherever we could. A hurtful sentence or a word is good enough to break a relationship in just a matter of few seconds or minutes but it takes time to mend that relationship again. If we become nicer to others, you can expect them to be nicer to you as well. When someone hurts you, it becomes difficult to let go but we ought to learn the fact that there is no solution to it except for the fact that we forgive the person and move on. If you are still having some hard time letting go off the pain, relieving it beneath deep down under your heart, here are some of the tips that might help you to cope up:
Commit yourself to let go off the pain for whatever bad things have happened to you. I know, it’s not just a one-day process. It will take its own time to heal and as time [...]
Forgiveness is the key to Happiness – Part I
It’s a proven fact that we cannot be happy unless your mind is at peace but from where do we get the peace in our lives? In life there are lots of high’s and low’s, we need not be so attached to all the low’s or ugly things happening in our life. Lets take an example of a situation where some other person hurts you some time ago. You get very depressed with what that person has done to you. Perhaps, he behaved with you in a very bad manner. I understand, you might even feel broken and hurted by their actions. So what’s next, you cannot change the situation either. Sometimes, life does not give you any options. You have to accept what’s being offered to you. The pain is or was too severe for you to forget that incident. But who is going to get hurt by it. You, yourself! If you keep that pain lingering in your mind for long run, it is going to be painful and is going to be miserable for you. As we keep relieving pain over and over again, it would be really difficult to let go [...]
Get More with Less
This is one of the simplest and the best-known rules of life and business if you are looking for success in your venture. People get too busy with making money all the time and they want to take up so many things at a time, to hardly get any time actually focusing on one. In the end, they find nothing but a sheer luck of failure. Well, what I said is something you might not be digesting at first. I especially said those words, “sheer luck of FAILURE” instead of the word SUCCESS at the same place. We make big promises to ourselves to achieve our goals and targets for life but something just comes up that stops you from getting to the success and you fail on it just by a second. In my personal experiences, there have been phases where I really neatly failed but raised myself up from the dumps and today I stand here in front of you.
To be successful in life, you have to find a path of righteousness where you can manifest your life in to a successful one. It is important to take active [...]
Speak your word
There are so many things in life that we just tent to let go off and dare it comes out of your mouth some day. Although we tend to be true to ourselves we are not actually being real by not speaking out the words that are on our minds. It gets a little difficult to spurt out what we actually feel internally. Here are our ego stopping us from facing the reality, we get so tensed and literally bothered about what is going to come next. Perhaps, when we start thinking too much about particular situations, there comes a time where our higher self tells us to be authentically honest to your own self and to those who are around us. Sometimes, consciously or unconsciously we tend to make faster decisions, which may bring in goodness or badness. We are responsible for our own actions and inactions, the conscious state of being tells us whether we are doing right or wrong things. This is the time when you are acting natural and feeling almost not afraid to express your true feelings. It gets tentatively [...]
Ward off that Evil looking Queue from your life!
Perhaps our whole lifetime goes in Queues, whether we are working or no we are bound to stretch ourselves from the set boundaries of getting over worked. The Queues are the main stressful events of your life; no matter how much ever your income is, at last you are made to stand in Queue. I am not just talking about our physical queues; there are many other important queues in our life that occupies much of our time, energy and resources. The only way to come out of these queues is to liberate ourselves and come out of that daily mould of getting into queues and think of the ways which would make our life more fulfilling and more happier.
Now looking over at few examples of our daily queues, these include checking our mails, answering the voice mails, attending to meetings, managing your social networks and if these were not enough to satisfy your thirst for letting queues in your life, here are some compulsory ones which rules your life: they are the instant messages you got to answer [...]







